Identifying Insecurity

Today’s Text: 

Psalm 139:13-16 

You made all the delicate, inner parts of my body and knit me together in my mother’s womb. Thank you for making me so wonderfully complex! Your workmanship is marvelous—how well I know it. You watched me as I was being formed in utter seclusion, as I was woven together in the dark of the womb. You saw me before I was born. Every day of my life was recorded in your book. Every moment was laid out before a single day had passed. 

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Today’s Notes from the Scriptures 

Let me ask you to do what may be an uncomfortable exercise. We are going to examine statements that insecure people often make about themselves. As you read each one, ask yourself… 

Do I think similarly? 

Insecure people make comments like: 

• Why bother trying? I'll never get it right.

• Everyone is looking at me, just waiting for me to make a fool of myself.

• I'm a failure.

• I am ugly and awful to look at.

• I can never win. I'm just a loser.

• No matter how hard I work, I never get any recognition.

• I am incompetent at everything.

• Nobody could ever speak well about me.

• I have failed before; once a failure, always a failure.

• I don't see how anyone could ever like, respect, or accept me.

• I don't deserve to be treated well.

• I don't fit here or anywhere else.

• Everyone else looks so "together." I feel "out of it" compared to them.

• I am an incomplete person, and nothing can change that.

• Why would anyone care to hear what I have to say?

• No one cares about what I think or feel.

• People are nice to me only when they want something from me. 

Did any of the above statements ring true for you? Prayerfully consider the ones that got your attention. Then, take those specific fears to the Lord, and allow Him to show you His truth in each area. God wants to set you free from anything hindering your spiritual development. (Hebrews 12:1-3) 

Therefore, since we are surrounded by such a great cloud of witnesses, let us throw off everything that hinders and the sin that so easily entangles, and let us run with perseverance the race marked out for us. Let us fix our eyes on Jesus, the author and perfecter of our faith, who for the joy set before him endured the cross, scorning its shame, and sat down at the right hand of the throne of God. Consider him who endured such opposition from sinful men, so that you will not grow weary and lose heart.